When a friend betrays you!
I just got off the phone with a client who was upset that a friend of his betrayed him. He was upset and wanted to end his friendship with this individual. Who can blame him! So, what do you do when someone that you trust betrays you? Do you start confronting and get into that persons face, or do you clam up and avoid them until you cool off?
I have friends that have been betrayed, their anger was deep and lasted for months and even years. Betrayal comes in many forms, not keeping secrets, gossiping, mocking someone’s ideas, this is an endless list. Most people will vent, go to other people they know and start attacking the person who betrayed them. Then the war starts and will never end unless someone stops wanting to get even, they need to stop the verbal attacks. No one will ever win the war on betrayal. Its best just to walk away from the situation and move on. The person who has been betrayed is left to deal with the broken pieces of a fractured relationship. I would encourage you not to become bitter or hateful with the person who wronged you. Move on with your life and focus on the future and enjoy life and all it has to offer. If you dwell on the person who has betrayed you, then you have lost focus on the good things that you enjoy and appreciate.
Is it worth it to get revenge? Will you make payback your focus, will every waking thought be on scheming on how to get even? If this is the case, let’s talk and focus on how you can move on with your life.
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